The Thing Beneath the Thing: Surrender
"The Thing Beneath the Thing: Surrender"
WEEK 4 — Learning to Let Go Big Idea: Freedom isn’t about how much you have — it’s about how loosely you’re holding it. Text: Luke 16:1–13; Proverbs 3:5–10 1. You’re Not the Owner. You’re the Manager. (Luke 16:1–2) • Wealth is entrusted, not possessed. • Anxiety grows where ownership is assumed. • What you think you own will eventually own you. 2. Faithfulness in Small Things Reveals Big Trust. (Luke 16:10–12; Prov. 3:5–10) • Money is a diagnostic tool. • Trust is measurable by surrender. • Where your money goes first reveals what your heart trusts most. 3. You Can’t Serve Two Masters. (Luke 16:13) • Divided allegiance produces anxiety. • Whatever controls your peace is your master. • Surrender isn’t losing control — it’s giving control back to the One who never lost it. Invitation: Trust more. Surrender fully. Choose your Master.
Ever feel like money has more control over you than you’d like to admit?
In Week 4 of Learning to Let Go, we dive into one of Jesus’ most confusing parables — and discover it’s not really about money. It’s about surrender.
Whether you’re juggling a mortgage, daycare costs, student loans, or just trying to “get ahead,” this message will help you rethink ownership, anxiety, and what real freedom actually looks like.
If you’re new to church or unsure about faith, this is a practical and honest conversation about trust, control, and who’s really in charge of your life.
Bible References: Luke 16:1–13; Luke 15:1–2; Proverbs 3:5–10
Small Group Discussion Questions
What’s something you’ve worked hard for that became emotionally hard to let go of?
How does money tend to affect stress levels in families today?
Why do you think Jesus talks about money so directly?
In Luke 16, what does it mean to be a manager rather than an owner?
Where might God be inviting you into deeper trust right now?
Scripture: Luke 16:1–13; Proverbs 3:5–10
2 Deep Journal Questions
What currently controls my peace the most? What would it look like to surrender that to Jesus?
If obedience to God cost me financially, would I still choose Him? Why or why not?